True Unselfishness

When we want for others what we want for ourselves, we are being generous and unselfish.

The Golden Rule exists in every culture.

It is always relevant at every time in history.

It is always relevant at every time in our personal history.

Whenever there is an opportunity to be kind and uplifting and we act that way, we are contributing to a rise in consciousness.

Those whose gain is at the expense of others are not actually rising.

Taking advantage of others does nothing for the well-being of all.

This is our goal as humans, to learn to live from higher motives.

Generously contributing to our communities lets us live a life of assurance.

We see so much weakness and fear when others act solely to their own advantage.

We release ourselves and others from limitations when we realize that there is enough for all.

We are always able to find creative solutions through generosity.

Once we gain a sense of unlimited possibilities, our thoughts go to work in that direction.

We are able to be truly unselfish because we have no fear.

Our fearlessness coveys itself through generosity and compassion.

It is good to learn to practice this for ourselves and then to share our results throughout our communities.

Once the fear is dissolved and kindness is released, it becomes a flow.

It is possible to build on new ground for ourselves, our communities, and our country.

© 2019 Kathryn Hardage

www.lovedcherishedadored.blogspot.com 

My Creativity

I had no idea how important my creativity is to me.

It turns out, that if I can’t release it, I do not feel right.

It has become my policy to honor my creativity.

Through developing my relationship with the divine, I have been led to prosperity through creativity.

I am now recieving guidance to convert my prosperity so it can be received by others.

The language of the divine often runs counter to every day common sense language.

This is another part of how the divine works.

By sharing, my prosperity increases.

The way has been cleared to translate my prosperity into a new, recievable form.

What a relief to understand that aspect of the divine.

The gentle, pervasive presence of the divine is always there.

Running into obstacles and finding myself back at the same place always alerts me that I am not in sync with the divine.

Especially when I am taking a new step, I have to listen carefully and watch my behavior when something seems to make common sense.

If it does not work, it is not aligned with the divine.

When I do finally discern what is needed, the obstacles are cleared and I can proceed.

The divine is very specific and all-powerful.

I must listen and resond to this authority for progress.

Then I receive the support of the divine and things move forward smoothly.

It is a different way of approaching expansion.

The divine always has the answer, and I always have to find it on its own terms.

© 2019 Kathryn Hardage

www.lovedcherishedadored.blogspot.com 

Create a New Place

If the old place does not fit, create a new one.

Your inner lstening creates space for Guidance.

As you follow your desires, they take you to a new place.

Your new place may appear dramatically or it may grow into your life gently.

All the work you have been doing to listen inwardly is guiding you to your new place.

Step by step you are getting there.

Your new foundation is laid with each step.

As you take in the new view, you are already preparing yourself.

Your new direction is being established.

Stepping out from the familiar places you in motion.

You have created room for new feelings and atmosphere around you.

You are replacing old habits with new experiences and feelings.

You are buiding a new relationship to the divine.

You are becoming aware of no limitations.

You are surpassing your old limits.

You are keeping your eye on your goal.

Even if you do not have a specific direction, your motivation is directing you safely.

You can tell the difference between what makes sense and what does not fit.

Your steps become surer and your goal becomes clear.

You have more room for joy and happiness.

You feel your new place approaching.

You follow the steps which come to you.

You are put in contact with the right resources at the right time.

You define yourself and your goal clearly.

You arrive at your new place.

© 2019 Kathryn Hardage

www.lovedcherishedadored.blogspot.com

Comfort From Within

I am discovering the persistent presence and consistency of comfort from within.

Whenever I am faced with confusion or uncertainty, I can find my way forward by listening within.

My intuition goes into action and I am led to take the steps I need, big or small.

Mostly, I take lots of tiny steps, but every once in a while, I take a big step.

I figure the foundation has been laid through the many tiny steps to allow a big step.

When a big step happens, all the minutae of details are present, supporting the big step.

The importance of establishing connections through all the tiny steps is essential.

These little steps are a comfort every time they are taken.

This comfort assures support for the big step.

As we listen within, and find the comforting Presence, we are able to act on Its Guidance.

We see our progress by going from comfort to comfort in each tiny step.

Then we can observe the larger step and have a larger perspective on the comfort we have been creating and maintaining.

As I create a comforting atmosphere for myself, I see how it comes from wthin and expands around me.

I gain trust and assurance for myself as I expand my range this way.

I find that comforting situations and atmosphere come to meet me.

When I clearly define what comforts me and then create and maintain it, that is what appears wherever I go.

Any situation which does not feel comfortable is a warning and a protection.

I can find another way.

After all, that is what I have been doing through my new practice of listening within.

© 2019 Kathryn Hardage

www.lovedcherishedadored.blogspot.com 

Courage to Rebuild

I am receiving the ideas I need from many wonderful resources in order to rebuild my life.

I can feel the new foundation taking place as I take each new step.

I can choose the company I keep and the supportive friends I enjoy.

I can find the solution to each big and little manifestation of the negativity of the past.

My steps are more sure as I place my need to be fulfilled and happy in the forefront of my activities.

Being in a direct line to receive the good I have always worked for makes it easier to rebuild.

My life is worthy and important;  I am not here just to serve the needs of others.

My life has a value of its own, newly discovered.

I am able to proceed directly to my own goals.

Everything which I learn helps me move more securely toward my goal.

My foundation becomes stronger as I express myself clearly and confidently.

I attract those of good character around me as I express myself without fear.

I have the courage to learn the new skills which will insure my success.

I feel the presence of security and guidance taking me to where I belong.

I am able to recognize the attracting force of my healing and to receive its benefits.

I am able to increase my calmness and to expand it into more and more situations around me.

I am able to spend more time in the deep peace which nurtures and nourishes me.

My ability to receive peace is the most important factor in rebuilding my life.

By doing the things I love, I align myself with the peace I desire. 

I remain in the deep peace until it permeates my entire being before I take even one step.

I feel my true nature and capacity in a state of deep peace.

I see that I am living and working from a completely different foundation now that I am building on what is revealed to me in deep peace.

My courage to leave the old foundation of negativity and to explore the possibility of a different kind of foundation has brought me into my new and beautiful life.

© 2019 Kathryn Hardage

www.lovedcherishedadored.blogspot.com 

Crushing the Demons (and crowding them out!)

As I continue to heal, I can feel the difference between my own thoughts and the thoughts and actions which have been imposed on me.

I am creating more room for my own true identity and this is crowding out the feelings which have terrorized me for so long.

As I stand up to my abusive parents (in my mind, because they are long dead), I can feel the visceral challenge.

With trembling body, I go out the door to run my errands.

I brace myself for the inevitable physical disorganization, but it does not come.

A bully will always back down when faced with courage and integrity.

I am amazed when I return, that I was able to perform such a simple feat without backing down.

My heart rate is elevated, but I made it.

The next time is better.

I am finding my way back to competence and control of my body and of my life.

I am gaining the confidence which was hidden under the terror for so many years.

I am facing down my demons.

I begin to embody the hope that I will complete my many and delightful goals.

My self-criticism is ebbing away and instead I embrace self-compassion.

I trust myself.

I am able to follow through on what I desire to do.

I am able to do the little things.

I leave behind old associations and their negative effects.

I find new uplifting friends in new uplifting surroudnings.

I am able to sustain myself, physically, emotionally, financially.

My inner core of self-respect expands outward to all who meet me.

I love my new personhood and embrace it fully

I am no longer the terrorized littel girl of so any decades.

I, as a strong adult, have crushed the demons which caused so much despair and terror.

I live fully, confidently and happily.

© 2019 Kathryn Hardage

www.lovedcherishedadored.blogspot.com

Replacing the Ugly

You have to replace the ugliness in your past life  in order to move forward.

Otherwise, it just sits there in the pit of your stomach, waiting to exert its negative forces on you for lack of a challenge to it.

It replays across your memory until you fill yourself up with so much good, true, positive stuff that it runs out over the edge.

It will still cling to the edge until you do the requisite consistent work to detach it completely.

It may still try to come back as an echo, but by then, you will have some excellent practice in remembering and adding to your store of the good, true, and beautiful about yourself.

By filling yourself up with work you love to do, you validate yourself.

You show that you honor your judgement, that you are a person of integrity.

When you remove yourself from any negative situation, whether inposed from the outside or the inside, you are taking a stand for the beautiful person you are.

You are giving yourself permission to live well.

You are giving yourself the endorsement of your action.

You show courage in acting on your own behalf.

When you take a stand on behalf of yourself, you come into alignment with who you really are.

You give yourself a clear and uncluttered path toward the goals which are important to you.

You gain confidence in being the truly wonderful and capable and original person you are.

Your new concept of yourself sends out an uplifting atmosphere around you whch defines you.

Other people feel it and respond to it.

You create an energy wave which enriches others around you.

They are energized to respond on a higher frequency now that they have felt it.

You empower yourself in a way which launches you permanently on your own powerful path.

It completely negates the old ruts of habit from the past.

You attract uplifting company and companionship.

You are able to move freely in your new life and to share generously.

You move into your unlimited flow of harmonious well-being.

© 2019 Kathryn Hardage

www.lovedcherishedadored.blogspot.com