Attending a funeral for a family member, I was struck by the simplicity and sincerity of family and friends.
A graveside setting showed only a few memories, a photo of the young couple, a photo of the older man, and his ball cap certifying WW II military service.
I have attended family reunions with many of these same people before and felt the same thing.
Although the several branches of this family have many different beliefs and practices, there is still warmth and support for all of them.
The stories that were shared were simple ones.
Friends, neighbors and other people who were touched by his quiet presence expressed their appreciation.
An informal lunch followed at his local hang-out.
Conversation allowed all of us to come together to get to know people we hadn’t met before and to share more stories.
There will be continuing get-togethers for this family who continues, more warmth, more support, continued sincerity.
More simple stories.
© 2013 Kathryn Hardage
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