I have completely reformed, as in changed, my holiday seasonal celebrations as of several years ago.
I stepped off the gift-giving and receiving cycle, the family gatherings, and the tension of planning and executing events.
Instead, I substituted recognizing and celebrating my spiritual concept of individuals throughout the year.
In my service groups, I have expanded my giving to those in direct, often desperate, need.
Instead of hoping my well-employed and supplied adult children will like what I made for them each year, I do what I did when they were little.
I remember and acknowledge their spiritual qualities and spiritual identity; and I know that God cares for them in every detail.
The things I make for them, I think of as my recognition of their spiritual gifts.
My grandchildren, too, receive amazing presents from their parents, so I feel free in gifting them with what I feel is appropriate for them from our museum and bookstore trips, plus whatever I enjoy making for them.
This viewpoint is something I can give throughout the year to everyone whenever I think about a relative, friend or acquaintance.
I have been moved to celebrate in an entirely new way that does not depend on traditional holiday rituals and practices.
Despite the all-pervading cultural ritual, I am most comfortable on my new ground.
© 2015 Kathryn Hardage
www.InspiredPractices.com